straight people being always single and never getting stuck in a relationship is heavily normalized, but when it's about homosexual and bisexual people doing the same suddenly it's a total taboo since being non-straight is heavily romanctized like in romance novels where they get in a relationship, but in the moment one of them assume at never dating they let their jaw drop with the glorified idea these people gets a happy irl love story but never when someone bet not straight being in 40s-50s-60s being always single.